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Q: When I leave town, my cat misses me. Riley is 5 years old; he’s an indoor and outdoor cat, and neutered. I’m thinking of getting a kitten for Riley, and for me too. But my neighbor tells me Riley doesn’t like the cats he encounters outside. Am I better with a female or male kitten? And do you think getting the kitten is a good idea? -- M.R., Sacramento, Calif.

A: First, allow us to lecture. Riley belongs indoors. He’ll live longer, and indoor cats can be as happy as outdoor cats. Lecture over.

It’s my feeling that cats are way more social than most previously assumed. Riley may instantly take to the newcomer, but he may throw a hissy fit and the two might never become chums. It’s not a favorable sign if Riley doesn’t seem to like other cats.

"There’s no predicting," says certified applied animal behaviorist John Wright, of Macon, Ga. "There’s one thing for sure, you’ll notice a change in Riley. For sure, so much depends on the way you introduce a kitten. Take it slow. At first, confine the kitten to a single room."

After a day or so, let the kitten check out the rest of the house for an hour or so, while Riley sniffs around the kitten room. Begin a toy and blanket exchange program, so both cats clearly understand who’s on the other side of that door. When they are introduced, try to distract both with toys. Keep their meetings as positive as possible. You play with one cat, and have a friend play with the other; or put the cats together for a tuna party. You could try a brand-new product called Feliway. a spray with properties that mimic feline friendly pheromones (available only through vets). Spritz it on household objects the cats commonly rub their cheeks against.

"Although, there’s no research to predict whether Riley will be happier with a male or female companion; in my own experience, opposite sex cats tend to do better," Wright commented.

 

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